I'd like to say I have good values. Then you would probably ask me, "Jen, what are your values?". It dawned on me the other day that if someone were to ask me what my values are....would I be able to put into words a coherent answer? All I could come up with is NO I couldn't and the last thing I was someone to say to me is "
I started thinking about my values and the best way to put into words what my values really actually are. Could it be that what I thought they were might in fact not really be mine, but instead me trying to please someone else by taking on their values as my own? Or could it be that what I thought were my values really aren't the best representation of where I want to be as a person, what I want those looking at my life from the outside to see?
To help me corral my thoughts and ultimately a list of my top values, I used Personal Values Card Sort from the University of New Mexico. Apparently, one is supposed to pick
Through the process I was able to narrow my values (and essentially goals) down to less than 25. As I was talking about this one day someone threw this out there.
And I realized this is probably my #1 value/goal. Yes, somethings I do in excess, which then usually leads to not enough, but the my argument is that I don't want to become a boring bump on a log and so its ok to buy those expensive boots I've been pining for for over a year, its ok to take that trip, its ok to set a strict budget that I try vainly to stick to most of the time, its ok to eat cereal for dinner, its ok to splurge on the prime rib buffet.
Every once in a while you gotta kick your heels up!
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